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Episode #145 — The Problem With “Nice Guys”

June 17, 2020 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Women often say that they want a nice guy, so why do so many of them think that nice guys are THE WORST? The trouble is that Nice Guy’s behavior works against them; what they see as positive and respectful is actually pushing people away. Here’s why being a Nice Guy drives women away… and why it can be so hard to STOP being a Nice Guy.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

What “Nice Guy” behavior says about them
Why “treating her like a queen” is actually unattractive
How Nice Guys ruin their relationships
The #1 mistake Nice Guys make that “bad boys” don’t
What it takes to STOP being a nice guy… and why being a jerk isn’t the answer

… and so much more.

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The Science of Nice Guys and Assholes

Developing An Abundance Mentality

Eliminating Neediness

Where Do You Get Your Validation?

What’s Wrong With Being a Nice Guy?

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Episode #144 — Use This Mindset To Overcome Your Self-Limiting Beliefs

June 3, 2020 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Over the course of my career, I’ve dealt with a lot of people who haven’t had much dating experience — from people who’ve only had one or two girlfriends in their lives to literal 40 year old virgins.

They all had in one thing common: they had the same fears, beliefs and anxieties regarding dating and women that made them give up.

Here’s how to break through your dating fears, conquer your anxiety and overcome your self-limiting beliefs.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

How we project our anxieties onto other people
How self-limiting beliefs hold us back
Why our brains trick us into giving up
Why we give up control so easily
How to let go of fear

…and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

Unlearning Helplessness

Your Attitude Controls Your Dating Success

These Self-Limiting Beliefs are Holding You Back

Develop An Abundance Mentality

The Value of Failure

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Episode #143 — The Art of Sexting Like A Gentleman

May 20, 2020 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Sexting and knowing how to flirt over text is a skill that’s invaluable whether you have a friends-with-benefits relationship, a long-distance relationship, or if you and your partner are looking to keep things exciting.

In fact, knowing how to start sexting with someone the right way may be one of the most invaluable skills you can develop for keeping the spark in your relationship.

But you have to know how to get things started the right way.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

How to lay the groundwork to start sexting with your partner
Why the right text can be sexier than any photo
What to say to a woman over text to turn her on
Why most guys FAIL at sexting
What to say to start sharing pictures

… and so much more

How To Look Good in Photos

What Women Want in Men

Take The Perfect Tinder Photo

F*ck Like A Gentleman

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Episode #142 — The 5 Things You Need To Get Your Life Together

May 6, 2020 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

How happy are you with your life right now? If you’re like most people, you probably have a list of major changes you’ve wanted to make. You may even have looked at the current pandemic as your chance to work on yourself and get your life where you want it to be.

Now tell me, how far HAVE you gotten on that list? The odds are not very far. You probably attacked it like a man possessed… only to find your motivation and desire drained away. Now you’re basically back where you started, just more frustrated than before and wondering why you’re such a failure.

Except, you’re not a failure. Honestly, you were always going to end up in this situation. Because here’s a secret: this was always going to backfire on you because you — like most people — were going about this the wrong way.

That’s why today I’m going to teach you the 5 things you need in order to get your life together. Let’s do this.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

What everyone gets wrong about self-improvement
Why your problem isn’t a lack of discipline or willpower
How you accidently sabotage your own progress
Why most self-improvement plans fall apart within weeks, if not days
How ritual and routine leads to success

… and so much more.

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Episode #141 — How To Get Your Ex Back… The RIGHT Way

April 29, 2020 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Last time, we talked about the recent trend of folks reaching out to their exes, why it’s happening so frequently and why it can be comforting to try to rekindle an old relationship.

But it’s far too easy to fall back to old patterns and old routines with your ex, which means you’re going to make the same old mistakes that lead to new pain.

Today, I’m going to teach you the RIGHT way to get your ex back.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Why the most popular ways to get your ex back DON’T WORK
What you need to do before you try to reconnect with your ex
How to reach out to an ex without feeling forced, fake or manipulative
What to say to make your ex want to take you back
Why so many relationships fall apart for the second time… and how to avoid it

…and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

How To Deal With Your Ex

Why You Will Never Get Closure

How To Stay Friends After The Break-Up

Ask Dr. NerdLove: We Were On A Break

The 5 Things You Need To Get Over Your Breakup

When You SHOULDN’T Get Back With Your Ex (And When You Should)

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