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Episode #155 — The 5 Things That Make People Like You… Instantly.

November 18, 2020 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

The most magnetic, charming and well liked people aren’t popular because of their looks, their money, or their bodies. People like them because of they make others feel and the value that they bring into other peoples’ lives. These 5 qualities will help you create stronger, more profound connections with others, teach you to be instantly charismatic and become incredibly well liked by everyone around you.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Why genuine likeability and personal magnetism are rare qualities, even in Hollywood
Why sharing the spotlight makes you more popular
How triggering one emotion in people makes them like you, instantly
Why passion is so attractive in others
How authenticity and vulnerability make people want to spend more time with you

…and so much more.

Popularity 101

The Value of Authenticity

The “It” Factor

How To Be Charming

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Episode #154 — The Secret To Building Incredible Emotional Strength And Powerful Confidence

November 5, 2020 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Right now, we are living through the most stressful, even outright traumatic year that most of have ever faced in our lives. Even if you’re in a relatively good place, we’re all getting hit with bad news, more stories of police violence, political corruption, the continuing pandemic, even potential fallout from the election. It can be incredibly hard to have a positive attitude and solid confidence. It can be hard not to look around and say “how am I supposed to have the strength to keep going?”

But you need that emotional strength, powerful confidence and positive attitude more than ever. And the first step is to recognize the things that are stealing your happiness and sabotaging your life and learn how to build the emotional strength it takes to persevere, that appealing confidence and the positive attitude that can help build strong relationships and help you face and overcome the challenges in your life that seem impossible.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Why one simple word can ruin your self-confidence
How we convince ourselves that we’re powerless… when we’re not
The mistake we make that makes us miserable… no matter what we do
How we talk ourselves out of success
Why your rivals can be your greatest allies

… and so much more.

What “Forged In Fire” Can Teach Us About Manhood

Unlearning Helplessness

You Are Your Own Worst Enemy

“Your Attitude Controls Your Dating Success”

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Episode #153 — The Secret to Stronger, Healthier Relationships

October 21, 2020 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Have you struggled with relationships that were bad for you?

Maybe you’ve been in a toxic relationship with somebody who was always manipulating you into ways of getting what they wanted, leaving you feeling like a doormat. Maybe you had friends who treated you badly or would pressure you into going along with jokes at your expense or doing things that made you uncomfortable or went against your values.

Or perhaps you’ve had family members who would leverage guilt or reciprocity to make you do whatever they want, even if it’s a huge inconvenience to you or emotionally draining or even damaging. Or you were constantly being made to feel as though your interests, desires or wants were unimportant or inconvenient… even if it’s simply “don’t treat me like sh*t.”

One of the most important things you can do to ensure you have strong, healthy relationships — with your wife or girlfriend, your friends, your family or even your co-workers — is to have strong boundaries.

Today, I’m going to teach you how to build strong boundaries… and how to enforce them.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

What one viral video teaches us about toxic relationships
Why abusers and toxic people prey on people with weak boundaries
How abusers trick you into lowering your boundaries for them
How to push back when people push against your boundaries
The most important part of maintaining healthy relationships

…and so much more

Enforcing Your Boundaries

How Do I Avoid Abusive Relationships?

How Do I Get My Family To Respect My Boundaries?

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Episode #151 — The 5 Things You Need to Know To About Dating

September 23, 2020 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

The #1 reason why so many men struggle with dating is very simple: they don’t know what it takes to be successful with women. Attraction isn’t a checklist; having all the right “stats” isn’t going to magically make you attractive to women. Learning to succeed with women isn’t about having the right car or the right body, it’s about learning how to become your best, most desirable self.

That’s why this week, I’m going to teach you the 5 things YOU need to know in order to succeed with women, become the man you’ve always wanted to be and build the love life you’ve always wanted.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Why the men who have everything women want still struggle with dating
How to build your dream life… by working backwards from success
Why attraction ISN’T about your body, your height, or your income
How to escape the trap of your comfort zone
Why your own brain tricks you into failing with women

…and so much more.

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NerdLove Academy Merchandise — https://nerdloveacademy.com/shop/

Book a Private Coaching Session — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/private-coaching/

Level Up: Facing Your Dating Fears — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/facing-your-dating-fears/

How To Take Your Love Life To The Next Level — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/level-up-your-dating/

“I Took The Red Pill. Why Am I Still Not Happy?” — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/i-took-the-red-pill-why-am-i-still-not-happy/

What Women Wish Men Knew About Attraction — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/what-men-need-to-know-about-attraction/

The Value of Failure — https://www.doctornerdlove.com/value-of-failure/

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Episode #150 — Stop Being Afraid Of Rejection

September 9, 2020 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Rejection hurts… but the fear of rejection can often hurt even worse. In fact, when we give into the fear of rejection, we often set up a pattern that can affect us throughout our lives. Rejections we’ve experienced in the past can end up affecting us NOW. When we give into the fear of rejection, we can end up reliving that fear, long after it’s happened… feeling the pain as though it’s happening to us again, right now. When that happens, it becomes a way that we almost give up our free will; life becomes a series of steps that you take to try to AVOID feeling the discomfort and pain of rejection.

It’s time to learn how to break the cycle and learn how to stop letting your fear control you.

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