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Episode #126 – This Is Why Online Dating SUCKS (And 5 Ways To Fix It)

November 6, 2019 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Online dating sucks. Doesn’t matter if it’s Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid or Christian Mingle. Men get next to no matches, women get flooded with awful messages, bots, trolls and zombie profiles run rampant on most apps… it’s like trying to find a diamond in a pit of sewage. Most dating apps seem designed to be frustrating to ANYONE who wants to date someone of the opposite sex.

But it doesn’t have to bet that bad.

Here’s why online dating is so awful… and 5 ways you can make it better.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

What science has discovered about how men and women use Tinder
Why men match with women less than .6% of the time
How to use dating app algorithms to your advantage
Why you’re using the WRONG dating app
How The Cat Theory of Online Dating can improve your matches
The biggest sin of online dating

… and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

Private Coaching With Dr. NerdLove

How To Master Tinder

Tune Up Your Tinder Profile

How To Get Laid (Without Being a F*ckboy)

Texting Mistakes Men Make

How To Write The Perfect Online Dating Message

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Episode #125 – Are You Trapped In A Toxic Relationship

October 23, 2019 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Toxic relationships can be hard to recognize. Are you being stubborn and selfish? Or is something actually wrong? Toxic people don’t look like cartoon abusers, gloating about how great it is to manipulate folks.

Learning how to recognize the signs of a toxic relationship — and how to avoid them in the first place — will strengthen your relationships, improve your confidence and make you 100% happier. Learn to recognize these signs and how to drive toxic people out of your life.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Why toxic relationships are so hard to recognize
How toxic people trade on myths about love and relationships
What red flags you should be watching
Why “no” is your shield against toxic people
How to enforce your boundaries — even when people think you’re wrong

…and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

Is Your Relationship Toxic?

What Will You Put Up With? Boundaries, Self-Esteem and Dating

Why It’s So Hard To Break Up (Even When You Need To)

Dump Your Toxic Friends

Enforcing Your Boundaries

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Episode #123 – 5 Things Men Do That Women HATE

September 25, 2019 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Are you ruining your chances of meeting incredible women before you even start? Women HATE it when the guys they meet do these 5 things.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

How guys turn women off before they even say a word
Why trying to impress women you’re attracted to is the wrong move
How to demonstrate REAL value and status when you’re flirting
Why you don’t want to have TOO much in common
How men manage to turn a win into a loss with this ONE mistake

…and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

5 Signs Women Want You To Approach Them

How To Get Women To Approach You

5 Secrets To Make People Like You

How To Be Charming

Make The Right First Impression

How To Tell Amazing Stories

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Episode #122 – Conquer Your Social Anxiety and Develop Bullet-Proof Social Confidence

September 11, 2019 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Confidence isn’t about being 100% sure of your inevitable success, it’s simply feeling that you know how to handle the situation.  Taking away the fear of social awkwardness helps build bullet-proof social confidence.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

Why your attitude is the key to your social success
How you accidently cripple your in-person social skills
Why MeetUps, mixers and networking is better for developing your social skills than cold approaches at bars
How to block out social anxiety by avoiding the Spotlight Effect
How to make it easier for other people to approach YOU
A Guest Appearance By Mr. Senior Kitty

… and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

Stop Being Socially Awkward Pt. 1

Stop Being Socially Awkward Pt. 2

Developing an Abundance Mentality

Face Your Dating Fears

How To Get Women To Approach YOU

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Episode #120 – What REALLY Makes A Man Attractive?

August 14, 2019 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Does personality matter, or are looks the only thing that’s important? Why do guys have a hard time understanding what makes a man attractive to women?

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

How much your physique ACTUALLY matters to women
Why “attraction triggers” and evolutionary psychology give men all the wrong answers
How we let self-limiting beliefs sabotage our dating success
Why attraction is about more than biology
How we confuse power fantasies for sexual ones

… and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

The Myth of What Women Want

What Matters More, Looks Or Personality?

The Subtle Things That Make Men Attractive

Do Looks Matter?

How To Date Out of Your League

The Dr. NerdLove Facebook thread

The Dr. NerdLove Twitter thread

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