5 Ways You Sabotage Your Love Life

Behind every hot man is a line of people who are absolutely sick of his shit.

One of the most important things I can teach people about dating is simple: dating success is 80% attitude and 20% skill and presentation. No matter how good looking you may be or how suave you may think you are, a shitty attitude is going to sabotage your success and snatch defeat from the jaws […]

No More Magic Feathers: The Secret To Finding Real Self-Improvement

"Well if you insist, Doc!"

Ok, folks. It’s intervention time. I spend a not inconsiderable amount of time checking the metrics on my site. I see which pages get shared the most, which ones people check out the most often and which people keep coming back to. And I’m going to be honest: most of you are sabotaging your own self-improvement. […]

When It’s Time To Ask For Help

One of the hardest things that a man can do in his life is learn that sometimes he needs to ask for help. It could be almost anything that leads you to realizing that you can’t handle things on your own. You may simply feel like you’re unable to deal with your issues on your […]

The 5 Things You Need To Do To Fix Your Life


There’s a truism when it comes to dating: the problems you have in your dating life are a reflection of the problems you have in your daily life. One of key aspects to the NerdLove approach to dating is that the key to having more success in your social life – whether it’s more sex, more […]

The (Positive) Value of Anger

"Anakin, we *told* you that signing up for the Jedi meant lifelong virginity..."

Valentine’s Day (or as I like to call it, the Day of Lover’s Obligation) is coming up this week, and if you’re single or otherwise just wanting to go out to eat, odds are you’re pretty frustrated. In fact, with the world seemingly contriving to constantly rub your nose in your singleness, odds are high that […]