Why Is It So Hard To Be A Good Man?

Being A Good Man

Ever feel like trying to be a good man is almost impossible? Whenever I write about masculinity, I hear from a lot of men who feel hemmed in by what they perceive as the seemingly contradictory rules and restrictions that surround masculine behavior, particularly when it comes to dealing with women. And in fairness, it can be […]

How Do You Find Your Masculinity?

"OK, we better dial back the  body language; don't want people to think we're on a date..."

One of the things I like to talk about on here is the concept of masculinity. The concept of being a “real man” is one that’s caused no end of distress, anxiety and out and out pain to well-meaning men. Trying to live up to the societal construct of “masculinity” is in many ways a rigged […]

5 Ways You Sabotage Your Love Life

Behind every hot man is a line of people who are absolutely sick of his shit.

One of the most important things I can teach people about dating is simple: dating success is 80% attitude and 20% skill and presentation. No matter how good looking you may be or how suave you may think you are, a shitty attitude is going to sabotage your success and snatch defeat from the jaws […]

No More Magic Feathers: The Secret To Finding Real Self-Improvement

"Well if you insist, Doc!"

Ok, folks. It’s intervention time. I spend a not inconsiderable amount of time checking the metrics on my site. I see which pages get shared the most, which ones people check out the most often and which people keep coming back to. And I’m going to be honest: most of you are sabotaging your own self-improvement. […]

When It’s Time To Ask For Help

One of the hardest things that a man can do in his life is learn that sometimes he needs to ask for help. It could be almost anything that leads you to realizing that you can’t handle things on your own. You may simply feel like you’re unable to deal with your issues on your […]