Doctor’s Note: this column includes discussion of self-harm Hi Doc, I don’t know how to explain this, so I’ll give some background. I’m a 25 guy who never kissed a girl or held hands and so on. I’ve been rejected all my life and in many mean ways, always being told I was too ugly,…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: I’m Worried Women Will Think I’m Creepy
Hi Doc, whenever I’m out and see someone that I like, the three man things that come to my head are: 1. “She probably been asked out by many guys, better not bother her like the others” 2. “She is just being nice and I’ll just make it weird, better not bother her”. 3. “I…
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My Boyfriend Used To Date My Son And I Don’t Know What To Do
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I recently met a man on a dating site. He’s younger but I think I’m over that part. When we first started talking, when I asked his last name it sounded familiar and I asked if he had relatives near where my son lives. I mentioned my son’s name, and he said…
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How Do I Talk To Women I Meet During The Day?
Hey Doc, I wanted to share a couple of similar experiences with you as I’m trying to learn from them. A little background about me. I’ve started my journey when I graduated college in 2018. I really started focusing on my dating journey back in 2019. I was having trouble with the whole “just be…
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Help, I’m Attracted to My Best Friend And I Don’t Know What To Do
Hello Doc You could very well say that I (21m straight) am in a bit of a friendship problem type situation. I find myself to be incredibly physically (but not romantically) attracted to my best friend of 14 years (21f straight) and it’s making me incredibly uncomfortable. She and I became best friends in year…
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How Do I Tell My Partner I Didn’t Cheat?
Doctor’s Note: today’s letter deals with rape and includes explicit descriptions of sexual assault. Dear Dr. NerdLove: I had been with my partner for almost 10 years. Some significant things happened in my life and I hit a really low depression. Our relationship took a toll for it. Insert a mutual somewhat friend of ours….