Dear Dr. NerdLove, Three years ago, I met a girl that I’m going to call J, and she quickly became the closest friend I’ve ever had. We have the same hobbies, same taste in music, and same sense of humor, and I’ve never had as much fun with anyone as I’ve had with her. To…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Ex Won’t Accept Our Break-Up
Hi Doc, I apologize in advance for the length of this letter. I’m just so baffled. I’m in one of those situations where you break up with someone, but they don’t take it seriously. This dude. Just. Cannot take responsibility for his own emotions. I would appreciate any kind of advice or confirmation that I’m…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Friend Groped My Wife. What Do I Do?
Hello Doc, My wife and I are in a difficult situation, and I hoped you could offer some perspective. We have a mutual friend (let’s call him S), who I met through ballroom dancing (S and I are both dance instructors), and have known for about 7 years now. My wife has been taking lessons…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is He Shy, or Is He A Creeper?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: A guy from school that I barely know – we have one class together and don’t even sit beside each other – has been telling my friends and acquaintances about how ‘heartbroken’ he is that I “don’t like him the way he likes me”. Of course my concerned friends and acquaintances have…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is My Relationship Toxic?
I just watched your video on toxic relationships, and I’m a bit torn. I think I’m in a somewhat special kind of toxic relationship that sort of falls into a bit of a grey area with regard to the scenarios you went through in your video. Let me try to explain what I mean by…
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Risk My Relationship on an Office Crush?
Dear Dr. NerdLove, First of all, I would like to thank you for your great dating advice. I’ve been visiting your blog regularly for about six years now; even though dating is pretty much an American phenomenon, your blogposts, podcasts and videos have been useful to the Western European guy that I am. The question…
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