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Episode #103 – Offset, Cardi B. and The Wrong Way To Win Back Your Ex

December 19, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

There are the right ways of getting back with your ex. And then there are the wrong ways.

And then there’s what Offset did to Cardi B., which is one of the most astoundingly stupid ways of trying to get your ex back.

Here’s why those “grand romantic gestures” aren’t romantic at all.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

  • Why it’s so hard to let go of an ex
  •  Why “Grand Romantic Gestures” are actually creepy
  •  How public proposals backfire
  • What Offset’s “apology” says about him
  •  Why grand gestures are the WRONG way to win someone back

…and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

The Wrong Way To Get Your Ex Back

The Trouble With Romance (According to The Movies)

The Problem With Nice Guys

5 Signs Your Relationship Is Over

Why It’s So Hard To Leave (Even When You Need To)

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Filed Under: Podcasts Tagged With: apologies, get back together with your ex, get over her, grand romantic gesture, how NOT to apologize, podcasts, youtube

Episode #102 – Is Masturbation Bad For You? Understanding The NoFap Movement

December 5, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

To fap or not to fap… that is the question. Are there health benefits to giving up masturbation? Is porn addiction a real thing?
And just what is the NoFap movement, anyway?

It’s time talk about sex with someone you love… yourself.

Show Highlights:

  • Why the “dangers” of masturbation haven’t changed in hundreds of years
  • The connection between testosterone and masturbation
  • Why NoFap gives “super powers”
  • Why stigmatizing masturbation can be dangerous
  • Why the real problem is shame, not masturbation

…and so much more.

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Related Links

What Men Should Have Learned In Sex Ed –

The “Problem” With Male Virginity –

Did Porn Ruin Our Sex Life?

Porn and The Real World

What We Get Wrong About Sex

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Filed Under: Podcasts, Self-Improvement Tagged With: emotional intelligence, healthy relationships, masculinity, masturbation, podcasts, sex, sexuality, testosterone, toxic masculinity, virginity, youtube

Episode #101 – This is Why You Can’t Get Over Her

November 28, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Friends, do you suffer from uncontrollable longing for someone who barely knows you’re alive? Are you unable to get over that break up, even after months or years? Do you have the sinking feeling that nobody in the world could be as right for you or mean as much as she does? Are you afraid that this was your last chance for true love?

Then you may suffer from a disease known as Oneitis. Symptoms include heart palpitations, hopelessness, anxiety, terminal loneliness, embarrassing Spotify playlists, failed romantic relationships and a tendency to seek out pornstars that look like your ex. But there is hope! Stay tuned for a special offer that’s guaranteed to cure your oneitis… Today!

Show Highlights:

  • Why it’s so hard to get over an ex
  •  What we get wrong about Oneitis
  •  How to understand why you can’t get over her
  •  Why you need to practice some radical forgiveness
  •  How learning to get over your ex can make your relationships better

… and so much more.

Related Links:

Eliminating Neediness

How To Develop An Abundance Mentality

Do You Suffer From Oneitis

How To Get Over Her

Getting Over Your Fear of Rejection

The Wrong Way To Get Your Ex Back

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Episode #100 – Is She Flirting or Just Being Friendly?

November 21, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

How do you tell the difference between when someone’s flirting with you and just being polite? And why are we so bad at telling the two apart in the first place?

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

  • How men and women both misjudge flirting behavior in others
  • Why “Straight Dude Thinking” gets in the way of flirting success
  • Why we confuse parasocial relationships for genuine interest
  • How to recognize the signs that someone is flirting with you
  • The number one key to recognizing that someone is interested… and not just being friendly.

 

RELATED LINKS:

  • Ask Dr. NerdLove: What’s the Difference Between Flirting and Just Being Friendly?
  • Read Her Signs (Without Reading The Tea Leaves)
  • Fix Your Flirting
  • How To Get Women To Approach You
  • 5 Signs Women Want You To Approach Them

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Filed Under: Podcasts, Skills Tagged With: are you flirting with me, emotional intelligence, find your flirting style, flirting, flirting mistakes, how to tell if she's flirting, is she flirting, podcast, podcasts, social calibration, the friend zone, youtube

Episode #99 – Let’s Talk About Toxic Femininity

November 14, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

One of the subjects I come back to fairly often is the idea of toxic masculinity. It’s something that I personally feel is important to talk about because of how much it directly affects men and makes our lives that much harder and that much worse. However, whenever we talk about masculinity in any form, there is such a regular response from people, in the comments and on twitter and elsewhere, that you can practically set your watch by it: “when are you going to talk about toxic femininity?”

And you know what? Fine. Buckle up folks, ‘cuz we’re doing this.

Show Highlights:

  • Why nobody can agree on a definition of “toxic femininity” 
  • What we don’t understand about toxic masculinity… and how that affects how we see femininity
  • Who gets to define what is or isn’t toxic behavior
  • What are the differences between “toxic” forms of manhood vs. womenhood
  • What is the source of toxic femininity

…and so much more.

Related Links: 

What is Toxic Masculinity?

How Men Make Women Feel Unsafe

Why Is It So Hard To Be A Good Man

Nerd Role Models: Captain America and Non-Toxic Masculinity

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Filed Under: Podcasts Tagged With: feminism, masculinity, podcasts, positive masculinity, toxic femininity, toxic masculinity, what does it mean to be a man?, youtube

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