He knows he’s absorbed toxic ideas about women, sex and dating, but they seem true to him. How can he change his mind and let go of these beliefs?
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How Do I Stop Believing The Worst About Everyone?
He sees the worst in everybody and it’s made him miserable. How can he learn to trust people instead of feeling that everybody is a liar with an agenda?
Is It Better To Approach Strangers or Rely On Friends For Dates?
Hi Doc, I wanted to ask you for advice regarding meeting new women. From my part, although I have many friends, I only rarely encounter new women that satisfy the following criteria: (a) I like them, (b) they like me back, (c) they are available for dating. This year I have been in zero dates…
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I’m Still Struggling to Meet Women, So What Am I Missing?
Dear Dr NerdLove A while back after turning 18, I became extremely self conscious of the fact that I was a complete and utter virgin beta loser. I was skinny fat, unassertive, unattractive and I coped with this by using porn to dull my testosterone and video games to distract myself from reality. Eventually though,…
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How Do I Let Go of My Red Pill Beliefs?
Hey Doc – I’m sure you receive a ton of questions every day, but I am going to try to ask one that is worth your time. I was very happily “blue pilled,” if just being a normal dude and holding normal belief about dating can be called that, for the first 19 or so…
Why Do Men Find Me Too Scary To Date?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, I am a forty-something woman who has had (and still enjoys!) a very intense and independent life… but this seems to make me too “scary” (or should I say impressive/unusual/…weird?) to date for men my age: I speak five languages, I have lived in several countries and have a master’s degree, I…