Doctor’s Note: Hey all.
One of the frequent requests I get from my readers is to add a little more help specifically for the geeky women out there who have just as hard a time finding love or sex as their male counterparts do. Since my advice is based on my perspective as a guy who’s had to learn how to get better at dating women… well, I’m not going to have the same experiences or frustrations. But rather than let everyone hang, I’ve asked my friend Arden Leigh to help out. So without further ado…
Hello, lovely lady-followers of Dr. NerdLove! This week, the Doctor has been kind enough to loan me his platform from which to speak to you all. Let me introduce myself. My name is Arden Leigh, and I am the author of The New Rules Of Attraction and the founder of The Sirens Seduction Forum For Women. My calling in life is to help women turn their wildest romantic wishes into reality, and Dr. NerdLove himself asked me if I would come on here and give his female fellowship a few pointers on how to make all their sexiest dreams come true.
I do this work because for a long time I was completely clueless as to how to create for myself any kind of love life at all. I had my first kiss at age 17 — with my openly gay male best friend. I didn’t have a boyfriend (or even have sex) until I was 22. And lest you doubt my nerd cred, I grew up playing D&D, I spent my afternoons in high school on the speech and debate team, and my cat is named Wesley after Ensign Crusher on TNG.