Hi Doc- I’ve written you before and found your advice to be quite helpful! I have a situational question today and would love your eyes on it. I recently connected with someone I’ve met briefly in the past over a dating app and hit off the conversation with her. Let’s call her Alpha. We set up a […]
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Episode #77 – This Is What Makes You Creepy
What is it that makes one person creepy and another person attractive? Why do some men set off women’s Spidey-sense while other men can do the exact same things and be perfectly fine? Guys – especially ones who aren’t the most socially well-calibrated – worry a lot about being creepy by accident. They worry that […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Do I Do About Someone Else’s Crush On Me?
Hi, Dr. NerdLove; Thanks for the wonderful column. I… have a problem with disappearing and I think I need the Chair Leg of Truth. I keep having to deal with other people’s very, very inconvenient crushes on me. Example #1: I gave up my the forums of my beloved hobby when Married Sad Boner Dude “fell […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Tell My Girlfriend I Need Sex?
Hi Doc. First, I started reading your stuff about a year ago, and it’s been a big help to me. I do have some issues that I’d like to ask about though, but I should probably start with some backstory. I’m a 23 year old man, whom has suffered chronic general and social anxiety, three […]
Episode #76 – The Virginity Paradox
Recently, we’ve been talking about toxic masculinity and all of the ways that it damages men on the individual level and society on the whole. One of the enduring questions is: so what do we do about it. Part of the way we start end the damage that toxic masculinity does and help heal some […]
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Avoid Sabotaging My Relationships?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, I’ve been listening to your show for a while now and really like your approach to handling communication within a relationship. I have a question for you as both a perpetual worrier and former long-term single lady. I hadn’t been dating for the better part of the previous 3 – 4 years […]
