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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Do I Want Other People?

Hey Dr., First, I'd like to say thanks. My boyfriend and I used your sex advice to save our relationship. We were long distance, and both inexperienced, and when we found your site, it made all the difference. So, thank you. Unfortunately, this sexual awakening has bred some new problems. I'd like to underscore the fact that I am happy. I am in love 100% with him, and though … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Was I Too Toxic?

Dear Doc This is unusual, because after reading all your blog posts about toxic relationships and such I'd like your insight on my previous toxic relationship. The … [Read More...]

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Wednesday Open Thread: Tell Me Something Good

It's Wednesday, which means that the NerdLove readers get control of the conversation for today. Today's suggested topic: what's out there that's good that more … [Read More...]

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"Take the red pill and spend a LOT of time yelling on the Internet."

What’s Wrong With “Taking The Red Pill”

You may have noticed over the years that I cover a lot of topics that don't seem to fit squarely in this blog's mission statement of helping nerds date better. One of the reasons why I write about feminist issues or bad behavior within the geek community is … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Overhaul My Life?

I need some direction doc. As of the beginning of last month I've been reading your website and finding myself amazed at the knowledge of dating that had remained in the dark to me until now. I understand that the concept of, "me," is a fluid concept that is … [Read More...]


Imposter Alert

Apparently someone on 4chan is impersonating me. Keep that in mind if someone starts talking shit based on things I "said" on there. … [Read More...]