Hi Dr. NerdLove, You’ve mentioned you once lost a relationship with someone you thought was the perfect match and the love of you life. This just happened to me, and it is absolutely soul-crushing. On the one hand, it’s reassuring to know it happens and people can come out on the other side. And I […]
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Episode #81 – The Texting Mistakes That Cost You Dates
How often has this happened to you: you’ve got a woman’s number, but you never seem to be able to actually get a date. You may be doing great at first, but then you notice that it’s taking longer and longer for her to reply and those replies are getting shorter and shorter until you get… nothing. […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Recover From A Bad Date?
Good Morning Doc, I’ve gotten myself into a bit of an anxious state after a date went bad a few days ago. For context, the date seemed to go quite well initially. Despite the initial plan falling through we found somewhere else to go and had a bit of a laugh about the situation. A […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get A Life?
Doc, I got a question for you, what the hell is there to do in the real world? I say this as I’ve been getting more active in talking to women (albeit at the checkout line but it’s a start) and doing some online dating. Basically, I have absolutely no idea of what to do […]

Episode #80: How To Make Friends As an Adult
Men on the whole, and white, heterosexual men in particular, tend to have fewer friends than women and the friendships they do have tend to be shallower and less fulfilling. It’s really not uncommon for guys to look up and realize just how few friends they have outside of family members and romantic relationships. And by […]

Live Like You Give A Damn – The Lessons of Anthony Bourdain
Like a lot of people, I have some complicated feelings about the death of Anthony Bourdain. As a general rule, I don’t usually have much to say about celebrity deaths other than “Man, that sucks.” But a few, a precious few, manage to hit me like a hammer to the chest. Those are the ones […]





