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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Recover From A Break-Up?

Hey Doc: So I've recently gotten out of a relationship at the beginning of February. And it's been a disappointment, but I've been doing my best to move on. This includes trying to get out and meet people, and going on dates, and activities up to- and including sex. But aside from making me feel momentarily better, I still don't feel like I'm really ready for dating. I'm … [Read More...]

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How To Last Longer In Bed

Your No-BS Guide to Lasting Longer In Bed

One thing I've learned over the years - both through my own experiences and from coaching others - is that men are all quivering bundles of anxieties and … [Read More...]

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"Sweetie, you don't need independency any more, you've got me!"

Getting Space In A Relationship

  There are certain phrases that chill the marrow when you hear them in the context of a relationship. "We need to talk," of course, is the great grand-daddy … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Tell My Boyfriend He Scares Me?

Hi there Dr. NerdLove, I’m a geeky girl who needs some help figuring out how to bring up an awkward topic with her boyfriend. I noticed your site is very sex positive, so I thought you might be able to give some advice from a non-judgmental … [Read More...]

One that can lead to *other* full-body activities.

How To Be An Amazing Kisser

A lot of men's anxiety when it comes to women is performance based. Men tend to be worried - especially when they're relatively inexperienced with respect to dating - that they're not going to measure up. It's the fear that they'll have come so far and … [Read More...]

Leveling Up: How To Touch Her

Leveling Up: How To Touch Her

I want to talk about one of the most common sticking points guys share when it comes to building attraction. I see this time after time in men who've not had much success with women. It gets especially frustrating when they've been doing the work and building … [Read More...]