If you’re looking for advice on dating women, then you’re going to find many, many self-proclaimed experts in the female mind. The problem is that most of them are almost entirely wrong. Worse, they set men up for failure by insisting on an outlook that puts men and women in conflict. It’s time to talk about WHY […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Cure Commitment Phobia?
Hey Doc, Appreciate the site, and your responses to so many of us trying to figure this whole “desire for romance” thing out. It’s not easy, so thank you. My question to you regards the idea of “commitment-phobia”. I put it in quotation marks because, while I had heard the term before, I never really […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Help, I’m Afraid To Date
Dear Doc, I’m going to start with a quick rundown of my dating history for context. I never bothered dating in high school, thinking that those sorts of relationships wouldn’t last and weren’t worth it. Once I got to college though, I…didn’t get much further. I saw relationships everywhere that looked miserable and seemed to […]
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Episode #94 – How To Be A Better Man
Over the last month, the nation has had one of many conversations about sexual assault and the affect it has on surivors. And as more women speak up, sharing their stories, sharing their pain and their rage, there are guys — guys who don’t want to be part of the problem, who want to be good […]
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Make Up For Lost Time?
Hello Dr. NL. Thank you for your work over the years. I have long struggled to connect with others in a meaningful way. I do have plenty of friends and people who like me, but I’ve always longed for something else, and I never knew why. I am married, good job, etc, and I still […]
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Friend Zone My Wife?
Hey Doc: Long story short: we’ve been married 17 years, dated for about ten before that. Sex and kissing and everything else was, frankly, amazing in the first decade or so and, if I’m being honest, it was a strong motivator – but not exclusively – for getting married (I kind of think it always […]
