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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Do I Do About My Racist Family?

Dr. NerdLove, I'm a 20-year-old student in an interracial relationship. As my girlfriend flew into NYC from Paris, I flew into Connecticut from SoFl. Because we hadn't seen each other in three weeks, I told my father I would take the train into NYC to visit her. He said that was, "okay." My girlfriend advocated for LGBT rights throughout high school and college, so we went to … [Read More...]

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How to demonstrate value

How To Demonstrate Value

Last week's Ask Dr. NerdLove brought up a question that I hear from a lot of people: how do you keep a woman's interest in you instead of all of those other guys out … [Read More...]

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And nothing says "successful relationship" like two people trying to outstubborn one another for the moral high-ground.

How To Stop Fighting With Your Girlfriend (And Start Making Up)

Here's something that most relationship coaches aren't going to tell you: fights are a part of relationships. The sooner you accept this, the sooner you can learn … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Do These Women Ditch Me For Other Guys?

Hey Doctor Awesomepuss, really love your blog. I keep encountering this same issue with girls that I take on dates or girls who have expressed a certain degree of interest in me. The issue is they run off with other men in front of me. Examples: I took a … [Read More...]

5 Things I Wish I Knew Before My First Relationship

What I Wish I Knew Before My First Relationship

A large number of the emails I get for Ask Dr. NerdLove, both here and at Kotaku start off the same way: "I've never had a girlfriend". Many my readers have a lot of anxiety over finding their first relationship. In fact, many feel that they're … [Read More...]

"Hey, bro! Got any shreds of self-esteem I can destroy today?"

Dump Your Toxic Friends

There's a quote attributed to Steven Winterburn that I like: "Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes." I find that many of the people I coach need to do this sort … [Read More...]