Redefining Failure
I'm a failure. And I'm ok with that. There are a lot of things I've failed at. I'm a failure as a professional artist and photographer. I'm a failure as a comic publisher. I'm sure you could probably find plenty of women in my past who would quite happily tell you that I'm a failure as a lover. There was a point in my life that any of these would've devastated me. … [Read More...]
Ask Dr. NerdLove: The Best Is Yet To Come
Doc, First off, I wanted to thank you for your work--it has really been the first time that I've found realistic and opinionated articles for guys (especially … [Read More...]
Where Do You Get Your Validation?
I love Fight Club. The book and the movie. In the middle of the macho posturing and the My First Anarchist Manifesto, it so neatly captures the angst of people who … [Read More...]
Your Guide To New Relationship Gift Giving
I'm going to be honest with you: I'm not a huge Christmas guy. Halloween's more my holiday these days. It's not a Grinch thing; I don't have anything against the holiday in theory. I genuinely loved certain family traditions like the annual gathering of as … [Read More...]
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Go Away, Wait A Minute
Hey there Dr. Nerdlove! I simply wanted to drop you a line, I really appreciate the fact that you offer sex positive and feminist oriented dating advice. One of my big problem with the pick up community when I started getting into it is that it made me … [Read More...]
Leveling Up: Conquering Your Fears
I've been thinking of one of my cats lately. Yeah, I know. What does this have to do with dating? Give me a moment: this will all make sense. My wife's cat Fleurlin passed away this October. He was the sweetest and gentlest orange tabby you could … [Read More...]
