Hey Doc, I really appreciate your sex positive advice. That, your articles about dating apps, and your nonjudgemental approach to open or monogamish relationships and kinks makes me think you’re the right person to ask about this. Some context: My partner and I have been in a committed relationship for going on eight years now. […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Do Women Never Make The First Move?
Yo Doc, I’m a 20 year old straight male university student in the UK whose sexual experience amounts to two one-night-stands (one drunken incident with a friend and one Tinder date). I’ve never had an actual relationship, but not for lack of trying. Over the past couple years I’ve made numerous attempts at getting dates […]
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#84 – Can Silicon Valley Fix Sex Ed? A Conversation With Brianna Rader
The state of sexual education in America is appalling. If schools aren’t required by law to only teach abstinence-only education, then at most we get a glorified plumbing lesson instead of what we really need to know. As a result: more and more people are turning to porn for lessons in sex and sexuality. But what […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Do You Do When You’re Forever Alone?
Hi Doc, Before I get to the nitty-gritty, I want to say thank you for your work. The world needs more ethical, kind advice, especially for lost, young men right now. Now, my question: I’m pretty sure I’m ugly. I’ve never seen a photo of me I like and avoid looking at them where possible. […]
Ask Dr. NerdLove: When Is It Time To Break Up?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years now and we are best friends, but we’ve had our rough patches. I cheated on him in the beginning with my ex, and we’ve worked past it and all is well. Again we’ve had rough patches, but we also live together so […]
Episode #83 – What Terry Crews Can Teach Us About Standing Up For Male Victims
(Content Warning: Sexual Assault) On June 26th, Expendables and Brooklyn 99 star Terry Crews testified before Congress in support of the Sexual Assault Survivor’s Bill of Rights. As part of his advocacy for survivors of rape and sexual assault, Crews talked about his own experience of having been the victim of sexual violence. In doing […]
