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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Be A Better Wingman?

Hi Doc, I have a question which is a bit different from your usual fare, but I hope you can help me with. I'm a gay man in my 20s and I like to go out with my friends. Many of these friends are single women, who are interested in finding - if not the man of their dreams, then at least the man of their immediate needs. But - here I profess to have no clue how you heteros … [Read More...]

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Wednesday Open Thread: Game of Thrones Edition

It's Wednesday, which means it's time for the Doc to lock himself in his office with a giant stack of comics. Meanwhile the NerdLove interns and residents take over … [Read More...]

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How To Avoid Getting “The Fade”

One of the trickier aspects of improving your dating life is that there's always another level to master. It's easy to assume that once you've made it past that … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Fix A Clueless Communicator?

Hello Dr.NerdLove, I’ve got a communication situation that I’m hoping you can give me some advice on. I’m poly, happily married and have been dating my boyfriend for three months. My boyfriend is sweet, smart, cute and we have a lot of fun together. I feel … [Read More...]

Wednesday Open Thread: Table Top Edition

It's Wednesday which means it's time for the Doc to slip out to get another tattoo under the pretense of filing his taxes. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes. This week's suggested … [Read More...]

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Pacific Rim and Lessons in Positive Masculinity

This week, we're returning to the subject of Nerd Role Models, where we examine some of the most popular characters in pop-culture and what you can learn from them. After last week's discussion about reclaiming what it means to be a man from the restrictions … [Read More...]