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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get My Confidence Back?

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get My Confidence Back?

Hi Dr. NerdLove, You’ve mentioned you once lost a relationship with someone you thought was the perfect match and the love of you life. This just happened to me, and it is absolutely soul-crushing. On the one hand, it’s reassuring to know it happens and people can come out on the other side. And I […]

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I Got Her Number. Now What? A Geek’s Guide to Texting

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Episode #81 – The Texting Mistakes That Cost You Dates

Episode #81 – The Texting Mistakes That Cost You Dates

How often has this happened to you: you’ve got a woman’s number, but you never seem to be able to actually get a date. You may be doing great at first, but then you notice that it’s taking longer and longer for her to reply and those replies are getting shorter and shorter until you get… nothing. […]

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It’s Dangerous To Go Alone: A Relationship Survival Handbook

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New Game +: The Geek’s Guide to Love, Sex, & Dating

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Recover From A Bad Date?

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Recover From A Bad Date?

Good Morning Doc, I’ve gotten myself into a bit of an anxious state after a date went bad a few days ago. For context, the date seemed to go quite well initially. Despite the initial plan falling through we found somewhere else to go and had a bit of a laugh about the situation. A […]

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When It Clicks: The Guide To Mastering Online Dating

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get A Life?

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get A Life?

Doc, I got a question for you, what the hell is there to do in the real world? I say this as I’ve been getting more active in talking to women (albeit at the checkout line but it’s a start) and doing some online dating.  Basically, I have absolutely no idea of what to do […]

Episode #80: How To Make Friends As an Adult

Episode #80: How To Make Friends As an Adult

Men on the whole, and white, heterosexual men in particular, tend to have fewer friends than women and the friendships they do have tend to be shallower and less fulfilling. It’s really not uncommon for guys to look up and realize just how few friends they have outside of family members and romantic relationships. And by […]

Live Like You Give A Damn – The Lessons of Anthony Bourdain

Live Like You Give A Damn – The Lessons of Anthony Bourdain

Like a lot of people, I have some complicated feelings about the death of Anthony Bourdain. As a general rule, I don’t usually have much to say about celebrity deaths other than “Man, that sucks.” But a few, a precious few, manage to hit me like a hammer to the chest. Those are the ones […]

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  • fuzzilla No, I didn't think I was clingy, I was just giving a bit of context, just so people didn't think I was constantly hounding boyfriends about stupid things. With that particular example...I don't think...

    Episode #81 – The Texting Mistakes That Cost You Dates ·  June 22, 2018

  • aennilla Wow. o.O Seriously? There's bad at communicating and there's total radio silence. I thought notifying to tell others of a missed appointment would be bloody basic social skills. How the hell did they...

    Episode #81 – The Texting Mistakes That Cost You Dates ·  June 22, 2018

  • The Mikey I figure if they don’t respond at all, ehhhh, move on.

    Episode #81 – The Texting Mistakes That Cost You Dates ·  June 22, 2018

  • Robin van Steenbergen I tried a few of those in the past, and I get ignored on the opening questions regardless. Usually I figure they're just match collectors if they don't respond in a few days and they get deleted.

    Episode #81 – The Texting Mistakes That Cost You Dates ·  June 22, 2018

  • Robin van Steenbergen If someone were to send me a pic of their 'wet hairy pussy' and I'd get a picture of a fluffy kitten that was drenched in the rain, I would just find it both cute and hilarious.

    Episode #81 – The Texting Mistakes That Cost You Dates ·  June 22, 2018

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