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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Start Over After A Divorce?

Hi Dr. NerdLove— So I'm a 20 year old college student who until recently had zero experience with women. After the end of classes, I went out to a bar with some friends, mainly just to be social (I'm not a big bar guy). I was already pretty drunk from an earlier party, and one thing led to another, and I ended up first chatting with this girl, then dancing with her, and then … [Read More...]

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Wednesday Open Thread: Internet Romance Edition!

It's Wednesday, which means it's time for the Doc to de-muck his offices now that the Memorial Day floodwaters have subsided. Meanwhile, the NerdLove residents and … [Read More...]

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"I don't get it. How could porn have lied to me?"

The Truth About Casual Sex (and How To Get it)

One of the oldest canards - something I've written about before, in fact - is the idea that women don't like sex, especially casual sex, as much as men do. It's the … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: I Have A Crush on My Best Friend. Now What?

Hey there, Doc Recently I turned fifteen, and met this girl four months ago through mutual friends. As I talked to her I realized we shared the same taste in music, films and sense of humor. She was really nice to me and we have talked very often ever since. … [Read More...]

Wednesday Open Thread: Post-Apocalypse Edition

It's Wednesday which means that it's time for the Doc to pass out in his office with his latest four-color fix. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes. This week's suggested topic:  Mad … [Read More...]

Behind every hot man is a line of people who are absolutely sick of his shit.

5 Ways You Sabotage Your Love Life

One of the most important things I can teach people about dating is simple: dating success is 80% attitude and 20% skill and presentation. No matter how good looking you may be or how suave you may think you are, a shitty attitude is going to sabotage your … [Read More...]