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"Take the red pill and spend a LOT of time yelling on the Internet."

What’s Wrong With “Taking The Red Pill”

You may have noticed over the years that I cover a lot of topics that don't seem to fit squarely in this blog's mission statement of helping nerds date better. One of the reasons why I write about feminist issues or bad behavior within the geek community is because, frankly, getting better at dating is a holistic system. As I'm fond of saying, dating success is 80% attitude and … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Overhaul My Life?

I need some direction doc. As of the beginning of last month I've been reading your website and finding myself amazed at the knowledge of dating that had remained … [Read More...]

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Imposter Alert

Apparently someone on 4chan is impersonating me. Keep that in mind if someone starts talking shit based on things I "said" on there. … [Read More...]

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Wednesday Open Thread – Your Dream Team

It's Wednesday, which means it's time for the commenters to take over the comments section as they talk amongst themselves. This week's topic suggestion: You have the opportunity to make your ideal Justice League out of any 7 characters in fiction - movies, … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Don’t I Want Sex?

Hey Doc, I could use your help. I want to preface this by saying that, throughout the entirety of my childhood, my mother mentally abused me (even before she and my father divorced). She'd tear up my things purely because I liked them or my father's side of … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Could I Have Saved This Relationship?

Hey Doc, Okay, so I have a situation where I got involved with a girl who's last relationship was abusive (emotionally and physically). We'd both just moved into college (neither of us is a freshman), off campus, second night we hooked up. That night, when … [Read More...]