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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Explain My Kink?

Hello, Doc, So, I think I have a problem that quite a few people also experience--dealing with kink, especially one that's rare, particularly strange by "normal" standards, or one that many people find outright disgusting. In my case, I'm a vorarephiliac. It's not something I'm particularly proud of, and I don't think any amount of sex-positivity or rationalizing is going to … [Read More...]

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Wednesday Open Thread: The Belated Edition

It's Thursday, which means the Doc just woke up from the coma he'd fallen into after saving the world (again) on Tuesday. Meanwhile the NerdLove interns and … [Read More...]

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How To Read Body Language

Being able to read body language is a powerful tool to have in your social toolbox. After all, meeting people can be pants-shittingly intimidating at times. You want … [Read More...]

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Wednesday Open Thread: Summer Memories EditionT

It's Wednesday, which means it's time for the Doc to wax his board and head out to catch some waves. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes! This week's suggested topic: Summer … [Read More...]

Eliminating Neediness

Neediness and clinginess are among the most unattractive traits a person can have. We have an almost instinctive repulsion to needy behavior. Consider the "ha-ha-but-no-seriously" humor of the "overly attached girlfriend" meme. For all the unpleasant … [Read More...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Keep My Cool?

Hi Doc! First of all, thank you for all your work, it's really interesting and I've been kind of addicted to reading your articles since I found out about them! I'm a 21 year old Computer Science student from Portugal and I don't really have a specific … [Read More...]

Wednesday Open Thread: Best Year for Movies Edition

It's Wednesday, which means it's time for the Doc to slip down to the basement where he houses his personal movie theater. Meanwhile the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes! This week's suggested … [Read More...]