The question of “how do I get out of The Friend Zone” is among the top Google searches out there when it comes to relationship advice. The idea of the Friend Zone as a sort of dating Stalag-17 has driven more people into the Pick Up and Red Pill community than almost any other topic. […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Learn To Trust Women Again?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’ve been a reader for a few months now and I have had a…bizarre break-up recently that has left me with worsened problems. My dating history already isn’t that great to begin with. Nerd in high school, which means the bottom of the social hierarchy. I got teased plenty about X girl […]
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: When Is The Right Time To Approach Women?
Dear Dr NerdLove First of all here’s a little background. Due to some mental and physical health reasons I moved from my home to San Francisco where I am currently attending college. I have had little to no success with dating outside of a relationship I was in through OkCupid that ended about a year […]
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Episode #73 – How To Be A High-Value Man
One of the long-running questions that men have tried to solve has been why women choose to date and sleep with some men over others — and, more importantly, how we could become those men. This is something that a lot of men get wrong, in no small part because one of the mistakes guys make […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Best Friend Is Sleeping With My Crush
Dr. NerdLove, Before I get to the core of the problem, I want to give you a little background of where I come from. As a teenager I grew up a fairly popular kid. I had people fawning over me all the time – men and women. Naturally, I didn’t know rejection until well past […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can He Love Her If He Already Loves Me?
Doctor, I need your help. I am not attracted to anyone in my area, not a single one. It’s either the horrible voice or being underweight or overweight, or the terrible personality (I have this one) It honestly seems like everyone sucks where I am, and it’s the exact same no matter what area I […]