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No More Magic Feathers: The Secret To Finding Real Self-Improvement

Ok, folks. It's intervention time. I spend a not inconsiderable amount of time checking the metrics on my site. I see which pages get shared the most, which ones people check out the most often and which people keep coming back to. And I'm going to be honest: most of you are sabotaging your own self-improvement. I write a lot about what it takes to get better at dating, and … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Be A Better Wingman?

Hi Doc, I have a question which is a bit different from your usual fare, but I hope you can help me with. I'm a gay man in my 20s and I like to go out with my … [Read More...]

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Wednesday Open Thread: Game of Thrones Edition

It's Wednesday, which means it's time for the Doc to lock himself in his office with a giant stack of comics. Meanwhile the NerdLove interns and residents take over … [Read More...]

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How To Avoid Getting “The Fade”

One of the trickier aspects of improving your dating life is that there's always another level to master. It's easy to assume that once you've made it past that initial hump - building a cool wardrobe, getting over your approach anxiety and generally learning … [Read More...]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Fix A Clueless Communicator?

Hello Dr.NerdLove, I’ve got a communication situation that I’m hoping you can give me some advice on. I’m poly, happily married and have been dating my boyfriend for three months. My boyfriend is sweet, smart, cute and we have a lot of fun together. I feel … [Read More...]

Wednesday Open Thread: Table Top Edition

It's Wednesday which means it's time for the Doc to slip out to get another tattoo under the pretense of filing his taxes. Meanwhile, the NerdLove interns and residents take over the comments section for their own nefarious purposes. This week's suggested … [Read More...]