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Episode #74 – How To Escape The Friend Zone

Episode #74 – How To Escape The Friend Zone

The question of “how do I get out of The Friend Zone” is among the top Google searches out there when it comes to relationship advice. The idea of the Friend Zone as a sort of dating Stalag-17 has driven more people into the Pick Up and Red Pill community than almost any other topic.  […]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Learn To Trust Women Again?

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Learn To Trust Women Again?

Dear Dr. NerdLove: I’ve been a reader for a few months now and I have had a…bizarre break-up recently that has left me with worsened problems. My dating history already isn’t that great to begin with. Nerd in high school, which means the bottom of the social hierarchy. I got teased plenty about X girl […]

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Ask Dr. NerdLove: When Is The Right Time To Approach Women?

Ask Dr. NerdLove: When Is The Right Time To Approach Women?

Dear Dr NerdLove First of all here’s a little background. Due to some mental and physical health reasons I moved from my home to San Francisco where I am currently attending college. I have had little to no success with dating outside of a relationship I was in through OkCupid that ended about a year […]

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Episode #73 – How To Be A High-Value Man

Episode #73 – How To Be A High-Value Man

One of the long-running questions that men have tried to solve has been why women choose to date and sleep with some men over others — and, more importantly, how we could become those men. This is something that a lot of men get wrong, in no small part because one of the mistakes guys make […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Best Friend Is Sleeping With My Crush

Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Best Friend Is Sleeping With My Crush

Dr. NerdLove, Before I get to the core of the problem, I want to give you a little background of where I come from. As a teenager I grew up a fairly popular kid. I had people fawning over me all the time – men and women. Naturally, I didn’t know rejection until well past […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can He Love Her If He Already Loves Me?

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can He Love Her If He Already Loves Me?

Doctor, I need your help. I am not attracted to anyone in my area, not a single one. It’s either the horrible voice or being underweight or overweight, or the terrible personality (I have this one) It honestly seems like everyone sucks where I am, and it’s the exact same no matter what area I […]

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  • commandermodesty To stretch the metaphor even more, you have to have money to make money.

    Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Learn To Trust Women Again? ·  April 26, 2018

  • Rodon ♂ Being a mod must be frustrating at times. You'd hope that people wouldn't need to be reminded to read the effing piece (or watching or listening to) before commenting on it.

    Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Learn To Trust Women Again? ·  April 26, 2018

  • The Mikey I will openly admit that I have that stupid paralytic fear. It’s my own fault, really. It’s hard to describe why, but as mentioned before by others... part of it is being *just* that vulnerable...

    Ask Dr. NerdLove: When Is The Right Time To Approach Women? ·  April 26, 2018

  • Jimmy Two-Hammers [mod] For tomorrow's podcast, PLEASE...and I know not everyone will see this, but PLEASE actually listen/watch it before commenting because actually listening to the thing is pretty important....

    Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Can I Learn To Trust Women Again? ·  April 26, 2018

  • rullerofallmarmalade I want to push this investing metaphor a bit further. When you are rich you invest for fun, you have a lot of capital to throw around so you dont mind if you dont make a profit. Its just a higher...

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