Ask Dr. NerdLove: Help, I Have A Crush On My Best Friend

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc.   First, let me say that I love reading your articles.  Your down-to-earth, no-nonsense approach to dating advice is refreshing, and while I’ve not applied a lick of it because college work takes up nearly all of my time right now (silly engineering school), I am looking forward to a day when I [...]

5 Types of Dating Advice People Need To Stop Giving

Nothing makes a date more exciting than trying to out "don't care" one another.

One thing about being a part of the Dating Advice Industry is that you inevitably check out other people’s advice. Sometimes it’s a case of just seeing what’s in the cultural zeitgeist – a way of putting your finger on the pulse of society by seeing not only what people are concerned about but also [...]

Ending Sexual Harassment In Geek Culture

Ending Sexual Harassment In Geek Culture

I want to run a quick question by you. Which of these do you think is an appropriate reaction to art criticism of a piece of art you enjoy? A: A discussion about the differences in styles and desired effect by the artist with an eye towards the commercial viability of the property, exaggerations of [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Recover From A Break-Up?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc: So I’ve recently gotten out of a relationship at the beginning of February. And it’s been a disappointment, but I’ve been doing my best to move on. This includes trying to get out and meet people, and going on dates, and activities up to- and including sex. But aside from making me feel [...]

Your No-BS Guide to Lasting Longer In Bed

How To Last Longer In Bed

One thing I’ve learned over the years – both through my own experiences and from coaching others – is that men are all quivering bundles of anxieties and insecurities. We’re not allowed to actually, y’know, voice most of these concerns – goes against Man Code, after all – but we sure as hell feel them. And it’s that [...]