Ask Dr. NerdLove: Help, My Lifestyle Is Hindering My Dating Life

Hey Dr. NerdLove, I am 26 years old and have been hard on myself for being (mostly) single for the past few years. Many aspects of my life are great. I have a great job in Los Angeles programming video games, above-average physical fitness, a good group of friends, and interesting hobbies. I perform well […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Can’t I Get Off?

Doctor’s Note: I’m at PAX East this year! If you’re coming to PAX, make sure to come to my panel: Video Game Romance – The Stories We Love, The Lessons They Teach at 8 PM EST in Arachnid Theater! And now, your letters.  Hi, Doc: I am in a nearly perfect relationship with the most wonderful […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Am I Giving Off The Wrong Signals?

Hey there Doc I’m a long time reader and I was hoping you could lend your expert advice on a issue I’ve been having for sometime. So little bit of backstory for most of high school and the early years of college I was the typical nerd. I was quiet, smart, terribly nervous around women […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Save My Friend From Herself?

Hi Doctor, I’m in need of advice and you seem to be good at that, so I’m hoping you can help me get out of a proverbial pickle. I have a very close friend, who is very dear to me. She is funny, she is clever and we both bond over similar interests. Unfortunately, however, […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Get Over My Girlfriend’s Ex?

Hey Doc, I have a constant battle with my jerk-brain, and I was wondering if you could help. I have a girlfriend, with whom I’m in a long distance relationship due to our respective work situations (we have over a 13 hour time zone difference). She loves me to death, and I love her to […]