Ask Dr. NerdLove: Do I Have To Choose Between Sex or Love?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

What’s up Doc, Here’s the thing… I’m completely nuts for a girl and she seems to be completely nuts for me. She’s smart, funny, gets excited by the littlest things, is a complete geek, and is seriously beautiful. I think she is about the best woman I’ve ever had a relationship with and I’d totally […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Guest Expert Edition

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey everyone, Doc here.  This week, we’re doing something different.  As on Monday, instead of my dispensing the dating advice, we’re have have a guest expert taking the reigns for today. Loretta Jean is a writer, artistic director and -unlike me – on track to an actual doctorate and she’s here to take your questions. Let’s do […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Boyfriend Watches Porn

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey guys, before I get to today’s letters, I want to let you know: next week I’m doing things a little differently. We’re going to have a couple of guest writers who’ve generously agreed to share some of their thoughts and experiences with the world of dating from a woman’s perspective. In fact, on Friday, […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Boyfriend Won’t Look For Work

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Doc, Let me start by saying I’m a lucky woman – I’ve found someone kind and considerate, who makes me laugh and is entertaining and charming and who comes in to snuggle me before I go to bed even if he’s not going to sleep himself. There’s just one big problem – he has […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Learn To Date?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hi Dr. NerdLove, So, I’m a 25-year-old woman in a weird place in my dating/sex life right now. For a long time, I thought I was a lesbian, until about a year ago when I dated a guy. Unfortunately, I was so anxious about how to be good in a relationship/sexual with a guy, I kind of […]