Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Much Is Too Much?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

I’m a 34 year old male. I’ve never kissed, sex, relationship, etc… I don’t mind discussing this with people I know. I feel like because I’m too open about my situation people think I’m looking for self pity. I don’t really, I just want them to know about my situation so it’s not awkward when […]

Ask Dr NerdLove: Is My Girlfriend a Slut?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hello Dr. Nerdlove, I am a twenty-year-old girl currently dating a twenty-seven-year-old guy. We’ve been together for six months now, and our relationship has been sexual for a few months. It’s been great, but I wouldn’t be writing if things were perfect. Before this relationship, I was extra virgin. No intercourse or other partnered sexual […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: A Kink Too Far

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Dr. NerdLove, I keep getting to the same problem very quickly with every guy. As I fear it is kind of a circle I’m not sure where to begin. I do not feel like I need much sex (but probably I’m mistaken, you’ll see later on). Penetration is “bearable” at the best times, but […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Help We Have TOO MUCH Sex

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dr. NerdLove, I’ve managed to get myself into a difficult situation and could use some advice on how to deal with it. I recently found your site and have been impressed with the no-nonsense advice you give and your mission to make men better at dating. After all, what I’m after advice on is how […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Move On?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dr. NerdLove, I’m in a rut. The most serious relationship I’ve had to date ended in late January, 2014. It lasted just shy of two and a half years. It’s now December 2014 and I can’t move on. I started the relationship as an out and proud gay man. I started the relationship the same […]