Ask Dr. NerdLove: Looking For Something Different

Dear Dr. NerdLove, I have re-written this letter a thousand times in my head and am still not sure it is one of the things that registers in the NerdLove realm, yet I feel you might be the only one who can help me with this… well, I hesitate to call it a problem as […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Don’t Make It Weird

Hi Doc, I’ve been reading the advice you’ve been giving many nerds like myself and I must say it is truly great. I come to you today with a problem that I feel is so simple to resolve but I just can’t see the solution (or maybe I don’t want to). Anyways I just turned […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: A Bird in the Hand

Hello Doc, I’ve always found myself terrible when it comes to dating, I went through school without ever being in a serious relationship and watching all my friends sort of meet their partners along the way. At age 20 I went to university and started to get a little worried about not meeting anyone who […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Solving The Wedding Woes

Hey Doc, I have a question that is somewhat outside of the normal range, but I respect your view point and I have no one else to ask. In brief-ish, narcissist gas lighting mother is dating the guy that molested me as a small (under 5) child. I haven’t spoken to her in three years, […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: I’m A Shy Virgin. Does This Make Me Creepy?

Hello, Doc. I came here because it seems like the more “open to questions” place among feminists and women of my generation for men. I’m not looking for advice for dating or sex but in relating to women as a loner, quiet, unattractive man. Specifically, at work. I’ve been reading several threads on Reddit among its […]