Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Change My Feelings?

Hey Dr. NerdLove, I’m writing to you anyways because I really need your help. I’m actually pretty ashamed of my problems too. I despise the way I think and feel, yet no matter how hard I try to repress them, they just keep resurfacing. I feel like I have to repress them because if I […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Keep My Cool?

Hi Doc! First of all, thank you for all your work, it’s really interesting and I’ve been kind of addicted to reading your articles since I found out about them! I’m a 21 year old Computer Science student from Portugal and I don’t really have a specific question, but my romantic and sex life is […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Confront My Father?

Hello Doc, Unfortunately, I think I need to talk to my father about porn. I’d really rather not, but I think this might be a real problem. I both live and work with my dad because I am a loser. My dad runs his own business and is well known for giving losers second chances. […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is It OK To NOT Date?

Hey Doc, Last year I separated from my wife. It was the first long term relationship I had ever been in, we were together for 10 years, and married for 8. We’d been living like we were married for almost the entire time we were together. Problems at her home when we first started going […]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: I Think My Girlfriend’s Cheating On Me

Hey Doc, I’ve been with my girlfriend for 6 Years now, through a lot.  But something changed recently and I can’t tell whether I should be worried or not. A few weeks ago, she seemed to completely shut down on me.  We went from daily cuddling and laughter and intimacy to…nothing.  She wouldn’t talk to […]