Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Recover From A Break-Up?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc: So I’ve recently gotten out of a relationship at the beginning of February. And it’s been a disappointment, but I’ve been doing my best to move on. This includes trying to get out and meet people, and going on dates, and activities up to- and including sex. But aside from making me feel [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Tell My Boyfriend He Scares Me?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hi there Dr. NerdLove, I’m a geeky girl who needs some help figuring out how to bring up an awkward topic with her boyfriend. I noticed your site is very sex positive, so I thought you might be able to give some advice from a non-judgmental standpoint. I’ve been in a relationship for about a [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Handle A Cockblocker?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hi Dr. NerdLove. I’m a 25 year-old dude who’s had an existent but inconsistent and not very spectacular track record with women over my life. I’ve read your blog in the past, but have only recently begun looking at it extensively as part of a massive self-improvement kick. Even though I’ve only been reading it [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Can I Ever Trust A Former Abuser?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Dr.NerdLove, Recently I met a pretty nice guy. I wasn’t gonna date him but I liked talking with him until one day he confessed that he used to be the abuser in an abusive relationship. That made me wonder what happens to people like that after their abusive relationship ends. I mean, does being [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Did I Throw Away Love For Sex?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Dr. NerdLove, I could really use some smart advice right now! For most of my life, I’ve only been with one man. He’s good-looking, has a great job, my friends and parents like him, and most importantly, he genuinely loves and cares for me. I never questioned being together but quite randomly after many [...]