Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should I Talk To My Ex?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Dr NerdLove, Is there ever a place for flat-out ignoring people? Long story short, I met a girl in AA, I was 9 months sober and she was 2 years in. I went through a situation where my girlfriend of six months 1) cheated on me with, and then 2) left me for her [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Feel Better About Myself?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Hey Doc. I heard you appear on the Rebel FM podcast and love what you are doing so I figured I’d write in. First off, I think I have a lot of problems. I am a 20 year old male, college student in home town, overweight (I’ll be honest, I’m just plain fat), am shy [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Getting Over-Anxious About Dates?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Dr. NerdLove, It has been a while since I had a girlfriend and lately I been trying to date more and go outside my comfort zone and ask out girls I am truly interested in. I have my moments just like anyone else , when I least expect it I can pull off making [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: My Girlfriend Has Too Many Male Friends

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Doc, My girl is a labourer, which means she generally works with predominantly males – which also means she makes a lot of male friends. Problem is, I’ve had a lot of bad experience with opposite-sex-friendships in relationships and am suffering some major insecurity issues. I realise this is largely a personal issues, but [...]

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Quit Being Insecure?

Ask Dr. NerdLove

Dear Dr. NerdLove, First off, thank you for your blog, I really enjoy it. Long time reader and you’re the only dating adviser I’ve come across that I agree with 100%. Now to why I’m writing: I have been dating my good friend for six months now, things with him are going really well. Not [...]