Dear Dr. NerdLove: A common truism you hear a lot about dating is “You have to learn to love yourself before you can love anyone else”. I’m bringing that up so I can tie dating to something I want to pick your brain on, which is about self-love. I find the messaging around how one…
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Ask Dr. NerdLove: Is Dating Too Hard For Men?
I’m 29M, from a European country. I’ve got a good career path (in training to be a doctor). I also have an introverted personality (more like crippling social anxiety when I was younger, but residency forced me out of this). I’ve never had luck with attracting women and have never had a girlfriend or a…
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How Do I Stop Someone Who’s Trying to Ruin My Marriage?
Hello, I happened to find you through a google search when I tried to look up info about how to avoid creeping people out. I’m emailing you because I want to see if you’re able to answer any questions that I have about your article: “Social Awkwardness is Not an Excuse” in writing? I’m asking…
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Why Is It So Hard To Meet A Good Man?
Hi Dr. NerdLove, I’m a 29 year old woman who is really struggling to get into a relationship. I have tried so many things, and I just don’t know where to go from here. I have a good job, a few great relatives, and some fantastic friends. I’m not unhappy, but I would really like…
Why Am I So Jealous of My Boyfriend’s Best Friend?
Hello, I am going through some personal conflicts and was researching on Google and came across your page. I have a somewhat tricky situation that I have never been in before and would like to know a professional’s opinion. My boyfriend, whom I’ve been dating for 10 months now, is best friends with his ex…
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When Is The Right Time To Ask A Woman Out?
Hey Doc, I’m writing to you to get your input into when a guy should ask a girl for a date after initially meeting them. To get a bit of context on myself I’m mid-twenties, not from the USA, never been on a date, etc. I do spend a lot of time online on blogs…