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Episode #116 – This Is Why Your Life Won’t Get Better

June 19, 2019 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Incels are spending tens of thousands of dollars on plastic surgery to become Chads and they’re still miserable. Here’s why your life isn’t getting better… and how to fix it.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

  • Why there are no external solutions to an internal problem
  • How a micro-revolution can give you back control over your life
  • Why you’re stuck in your comfort zone… and how to escape it
  • Why it’s important to embrace The Pain Period
  • How to change the world around you to fix YOUR future

… and so much more.

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The Incels Getting Extreme Plastic Surgery To Become “Chads”

Unlearning Helplessness

5 Reasons Your Life Isn’t Getting Better

How To Take Your Dating To The Next Level

Your Attitude Controls Your Dating Success

The McGurk Effect

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