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Episode #124 – Why Women Don’t Like Nice Guys

October 9, 2019 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

Why do women say they want to find a nice guy, but never seem to date them?

The answer is that what women are not saying is actually more important. Whenever a woman says “I wish I could find a nice guy”, there’s the unspoken modifier: “I wish i could find a nice guy… who actually excites me.”

Here’s how men can stop being so “nice”, and start being amazing.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

  • What women REALLY mean when they talk about finding a nice guy
  • Why women aren’t attracted to “nice” guys
  • Why being “nice” by itself isn’t enough
  • Why nice guys lose respect… and how to get it back
  • How to develop the qualities women are REALLY looking for in men

…and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Being a “Nice Guy”?
Why Being A “Nice Guy” Isn’t Good Enough
Eliminating Neediness
What Bad Boys Know (That Nice Guys Don’t)
Enforcing Your Boundaries
Do Women Prefer Dominant Men?
Dominance, Prosocial Orientation and Female Preferences

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