Being a man, particularly a straight, cisgendered man, can be a perverse paradox at times. Society caters to us in almost every way imaginable. Even in 2021, as we strive towards greater social and sexual equity for people of different genders and sexualities, straight cis men are very much at the top of the social…
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Episode #152 — This Is What Nobody Tells You About Having ADHD
Growing up, I knew I was struggling with things that other people seemed to be able to do without a second thought. I thought I was just lazy, that I needed to be more disciplined and to take things more seriously. But it never worked, and I never understood why. Now, after a lifetime of…
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I Took The Red Pill. Why Am I Still Not Happy?
Hi, I’m gonna keep my name private but I truly hope that you are having a great day and I hope your writing has brought fulfilment to your life as well as in the lives of your readers. With that said I wanted to ask you a question, I essentially want to know if you’re…
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5 Ways To Become Someone Women Want To Date
I spend a lot of time working with men who want to get better at dating women. This ranges from guys who’re trying to recover from a bad break-up, guys who spend so much time in the Friend Zone that they could run for political office there and even men who’ve never so much as…
Episode #148 — What Can Avatar: The Last Airbender Teach Us About Finding Remption?
It’s very easy to feel like you’re forever going to be defined by your worst decisions or your biggest mistakes. But while you can’t change your past, you can change your future. By examining one of the best redemption arcs in modern media, we can learn how Prince Zuko overcame trauma and earned his redemption… and…
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How To Unlearn What You Have Learned
One of the hardest things you can do — that anyone can do, really — is to try to unlearn something. Especially something that you aren’t even aware that you’ve learned. This sounds like an impossibility; how can you have learned something without being aware of having learned it? But in practice, it’s like the old David…