As we’re getting into the holiday season and the end of the year, it’s only natural to start looking back on the year and take stock of where we are in life and how we stack up compared to where we want to be.
And sometimes… well, sometimes it’s pretty hard not to be dissatisfied with it.
When you’re trying to get better at dating – hell, when you’re trying to just improve your life – you’re going to hit some snags. There will be times when you’re not only not improving as fast as you’d like, but that you actually seem to be getting worse. You may find yourself experiencing failure after failure, crushing your self-esteem and ego like a beer can under the steamroller that is life, leaving you feeling more convinced than ever that you’re just going be forever alone.
When you’ve stalled out, when every attempt at asking out the women of your dreams ends in devastating rejection, when you seem to have a reserved seat in The Friend Zone, when the universe seems to be arranging things just to fuck with you…
Well, it’s time to stop, take stock and look around. You’ve got to examine your life and see just what it is that’s holding you back.
And sometimes… well, sometimes you have to realize that the only common denominator in all those rejections is you.
But you can fix that.
If you’re having nothing but setbacks in your attempts to get better with women, it’s time to start troubleshooting.