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Episode #107 – Who REALLY Has The Power In Dating?

February 13, 2019 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

The power dynamics of dating directly affect your dating success. But who REALLY holds the power when it comes to dating? Why do so many people get the power dynamic of dating wrong and what’s the REAL power when it comes to love, sex and romance?

Show Highlights

  • How many of the “rules” about dating are self-limiting beliefs in disguise
  • What we’re REALLY talking about when we ask who has the power in dating
  • Why women DON’T have it easier than men… and how that helps YOU
  • How to control the interaction
  • How understanding the power dynamics of an approach can bring you greater dating success.

Related Links:

▶︎ The Economics of Sex
▶︎ Why Do Women Have All The Advantages In Dating?
▶︎ Why Women Don’t Approach
▶︎ How To Get Women To Approach You
▶︎ Yes, It’s STILL Creepy When Brad Pitt Does It

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