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Episode #74 – How To Escape The Friend Zone

April 26, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

The question of “how do I get out of The Friend Zone” is among the top Google searches out there when it comes to relationship advice. The idea of the Friend Zone as a sort of dating Stalag-17 has driven more people into the Pick Up and Red Pill community than almost any other topic. 

For a lot of guys, the Friend Zone is the ultimate expression of the dating binary: you’re good with women or you aren’t, and there’s nothing that you can do about it.

So this week: there’s no BS, no snake oil and no creepy, manipulative tactics. Just everything you need to know about why you’re in The Friend Zone… and how to get out of it.

Show Highlights: 

  • What most men don’t understand about The Friend Zone
  • How you ended up in The Friend Zone in the first place
  • Why the way most people try to leave The Friend Zone never works
  • What you need to do to change the nature of your relationship from platonic to sexual
  • The number one mistake men make when trying to escape The Friend Zone

…and so much more

Related Links:

How To Get Out of The Friend Zone (Without Losing Your Friend)

Why Men and Women Can Never Be Friends is Bullshit

Anatomy Lesson: How I Left The Friend Zone

How To Be “Just Friends”

Avoiding The Friend Zone

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