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Episode #90 – How To Be More Attractive… Instantly

August 22, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

When we talk about being attractive, we tend to think of it in terms of being physically good looking. But there’s a difference between being good looking and being attractive. People can be stunningly beautiful but have all the sex appeal of a block of wood. Meanwhile there can be people who are ugly as sin and yet have an almost mystical level of sex-appeal. 

Being attractive isn’t about whether you have abs like whoah or cheekbones that you could cut cheese with. It’s not about your skull or your jawline; it’s about the way you present yourself and the effort you put in. Attractiveness is about the holistic person and the little changes that make you go from “nice” to “…niiiiiice”.

Show Highlights:

  • Why physical looks are only a small part of attraction
  • The simplest and quickest way to change how you look
  • One simple tip for an amazing haircut
  • The number one way men kill attraction
  • Why most men will never actually improve

…and so much more

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Discover Your Style

5 Things Men Do That Make Them Less Attractive

5 Ways To Look Better (Without Going Broke)

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