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Paging Dr. NerdLove Episode #36 – Finding Your Flirting Style

July 6, 2017 by Dr. NerdLove 5 Comments

Learning to flirt is important, because it’s a critical part of not just showing your interest but also building and generating chemistry and attraction with the person you’re interested in. But while mastering the basics of flirting is good, but you also want to make sure that your flirting style matches with your personality. After all, one of the issues that can screw up an otherwise great interaction is if the way you flirt clashes with who you are as a person. If you can find the style that meshes with your personality, it all comes easier and more naturally and that, in turn, makes you more appealing. 

This week, we’re going to talk about different ways of flirting and how to make it work for you.

Show Highlights:

  • The rules of flirting
  • The importance of a push-pull dynamic
  • How humor can enhance your flirting
  • When and how to use touch to flirt
  • The power of “The World of Our Own” 

… and so much more.

Related Links:

How To Banter (Without Being an Asshole)

How to Use Humor In Your Flirting

What is Chemistry? Pt. 1 – Physical Chemistry

What Is Chemistry? Pt. 2 – Emotional Chemistry

Out of Sight (The Bar Scene)

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