How To Meet Women At Parties

"Hey, how do you know everybody here?" "Me? I thought YOU knew them!"

We’re well into the holiday season, with Christmas, Hanukkah, Festivus, Kwanza, Yule, and Saturnalia all competing for our attention (and occasionally trying to edge Christmas out of a little market share) and then the headlong rush into New Year’s Eve. All of this means one thing: It’s party season. The winter holiday season – no matter which [...]

The Value of Your Social Circle (Or: Embrace The Friend Zone)

"So Cathy tells me you have this trick with your tongue. Mind showing me?"

One of the things that sends people looking for dating advice online is trying to make the already stressful process of dating easier. Everybody’s always looking for the silver bullet, the magical process that will transform you from nerd to natural instantly and bring sex swimming to your door without effort… and unfortunately, it doesn’t [...]

The Attraction Plan

"No, no, you want to go up from there... right, like the prow of the boat."

A lot of guys, it seems, wish that dating had more in common with video games. After all, with games, you ultimately know what to expect. The nature of the medium dictates that if you spend enough time paying attention, you will start to recognize certain patterns; once you’ve correctly identified these patterns, you can [...]

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Dating 101: How To Meet Women (Without Being Creepy)

"It's a good thing you're cute, lady."

One of the unfortunate side-effects about having these necessary conversations about creepy behavior are the socially inexperienced or somewhat shy who are already anxious about trying to introduce themselves to a strange woman who mean well but now are even more intimidated by the daunting prospect of trying to not be creepy by accident. What was already a potentially [...]

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Read Her Signs (Without Reading the Tea Leaves)

You may also notice the sudden appearance of floating hearts and cartoon birds.

One of the hardest parts of meeting women is the intial approach. For many men it’s a nerve-wracking enterprise – nobody wants to suffer the indignities of being shot down, especially if it’s in a public space. How’re we even supposed to know if they’re into us or not? Wouldn’t it be so much easier [...]

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