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Episode #93: The Flirting Mistakes That Kill Attraction

September 12, 2018 by Dr. NerdLove Leave a Comment

There’s a lot of bad advice out there when it comes to flirting.  Advice that not only doesn’t work, but is actually a masterclass in how to creep women out and occasionally piss them off. Meeting women can be hard enough without making flirting mistakes that’re going to backfire, messily and all over the place. The last thing you want to do is ruin your chances with a woman by making the wrong move. Women want to like you and for you to like them too. So don’t screw it up. Learn how to avoid these common flirting mistakes that men make and women HATE.

Show Highlights:

  • Why your attitude controls your dating success
  • How flirting the wrong way just wastes your time
  • The common mindset that drives women away
  • How many guys ruin the attraction they’ve built with women
  • Why status isn’t the attraction switch guys think it is

and so much more…

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Five Signs Women Want You To Approach Them

The Mistakes Men Make WHen Approaching Women

Privilege, Entitlement and Dating

How To Not Being Creepy

The Mistakes Men Make That Cost Them Dates

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